Wednesday, May 30, 2012

frozen yogurt

My new guilty obsession?  Frozen Yogurt or, for those of you who are more hip than I am: Fro Yo.

There is a new create-your-own frozen yogurt place just up the street from my house and on the way home from work.  I stopped in today to kill the craving I've had the last week or so.  Chocolate non-fat frozen yogurt with strawberries.  Yum!  And bonus: it was only 5 points on Weight Watchers.  I will definitely be taking advantage of this delightful little place this summer!!



Sunday, May 27, 2012

talk on patriotism


            In honor of Memorial Day tomorrow, Brother Hallock asked me a few weeks ago to speak today on patriotism.  I’ve spent the past month pondering this topic and asking my family what being patriotic means to them.  Some of the words and phrases I’ve gotten are: pride, respect and honor, love, loyalty, sacrifice, remembering, freedom, voting, setting a good example, being unselfish, red, white and blue, flying the flag, the national anthem, BBQ’s and fireworks, George Washington, and putting country before self. 
            That’s kind of a daunting list of topics and very broad!
So, after gathering that list, my next task was to narrow it down to what it was I specifically wanted to talk about and focus on today which was surprisingly difficult to do!  But hopefully what I’ve put together will come together cohesively and make sense.  When I spoke last summer, I told a story about a mesquite tree that was in my parents’ front yard.  Hopefully those of you who were here will remember that tree and the parallel I drew between it and the importance of having a strong testimony.  Today I want to follow a similar vein and talk about seeds. 
Now, what do seeds and being patriotic have in common? 
Throughout history God has planted seeds.  Seeds that led Christopher Columbus, and other explorers like him, to set out on an adventures that led to the official discovery of this continent and brought knowledge of its existence to the rest of the world.  Seeds that led hundreds to leave their homelands in the mid-17th century to travel to this country in search of religious freedom.  Seeds that led a fledgling group of colonists to rebel against a monarchy in order to fight for what they believed in.  Seeds that led John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, George Washington, and others, to create the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution: the foundations of this country and the basis of everything we have spent the last 236 years defending. 
In Sheri Dew’s book, No One Can Take Your Place, she has an entire chapter that focuses on the seeds that were planted by these Founding Fathers of our country.  She says, “Our Founding Fathers planted seeds of liberty and freedom that have produced centuries of harvest to be reaped by those of us fortunate enough to inherit the privileges and protections guaranteed by the Constitution.  The wealth of the United States does not lie in its stock market or entrepreneurial reservoir. America’s wealth lies in its people—in us, and in the seeds we are sowing.”
            What seeds are we sowing? 
            As I was preparing this talk, the 12th Article of Faith came repeatedly to mind.  “We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.”  I wanted to delve a little further into this statement of belief that we have and figure out why it was so important that it be listed as one of the key principles of the gospel.  So I pulled out my copy of James E Talmadge’s “Articles of Faith,”  In it, he said, “Governments are essential to human existence; they are recognized, given indeed, of the Lord; and His people are in duty bound to sustain them.” 
In Doctrine and Covenants 98: 4-6 the Lord says, “And now, verily I say unto you concerning the laws of the land, it is my will that my people should observe to do all things whatsoever I command them.  And that law of the land which is constitutional, supporting that principle of freedom in maintaining rights and privileges, belongs to all mankind, and is justifiable before me.  Therefore, I, the Lord, justify you, and your brethren of my church, in befriending that law which is the constitutional law of the land.” 
Doctrine and Covenants 134:1 also states, “We believe that governments were instituted of God for the benefit of man; and that he holds men accountable for their acts in relation to them, both in making the laws and administering them, for the good and safety of society.” 
In short, governments are set up for our benefit and it is our duty, as a disciple and follower of Christ, to support whatever government we find ourselves under.  But what happens if we find we don’t agree with how things are being handled?  Elder Talmadge continues, “Our Savior’s work on earth was marked throughout by His acknowledgement of the existing powers of the land.”  I’m sure we are all familiar with the oft-quoted verse in Matthew, “Render therefore unto Caesar he things which are Caesars; and unto God the things that are God’s” (22:21).  “Throughout the tragic circumstances of His trial and condemnation, Christ maintained a submissive demeanor even toward the chief priests and council who were plotting His death.  These officers, however unworthy of their priestly power, were nevertheless in authority.”
            Since we are to always look to the Savior as our example in everything we do in life, I can think of no better illustration of what the 12th Article of Faith means and how we should apply it in our own lives than that.  There may be those who are in power who may prove to be unworthy of their status, but they are, as Talmadge said, “nevertheless in authority” and are due the respect that comes with the offices they hold and we are subject to them and commanded to sustain the laws of the land.  However, it is also up to us to make sure we are planting seeds of personal righteousness in order to further reap the harvest that was planted by our Founding Fathers.  “James Madison, who is regarded as the father of the Constitution, put it this way: ‘We have staked the whole future of American civilization not upon the power of government—far from it.  We have staked the future…upon the capacity of each…of us to govern ourselves according to the Ten Commandments of God.” 
Elder Oakes gave an address entitled “The Divinely Inspired Constitution” in February 1992.  In it he said, “It is part of our civic duty to be moral in our conduct toward all people.  There is no place in responsible citizenship for dishonesty or deceit or for willful law breaking of any kind.  We believe with the author of Proverbs that ‘righteousness exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach of any people’ (Proverbs 14:34).  The personal righteousness of citizens will strengthen a nation more than the force of its arms.”  Elder Oakes continues, “The single word that best describes a fulfillment of the duties of civic virtue is patriotism.  Citizens should be patriotic.  My favorite prescription for patriotism is that of Adlai Stevenson: ‘What do we mean by patriotism in the context of our times?...A patriotism that puts country ahead of self; a patriotism which is not short, frenzied outbursts of emotion, but the tranquil and steady dedication of a lifetime.”
            I really like that phrase “tranquil and steady dedication.”  How do we achieve this?  Elder Oakes said, “this steady, tranquil dedication…means living the gospel by becoming a 100% Latter-day Saint 100% of the time.”  Sheri Dew said, “Each of us has a role to play in preserving this nation.  The place to reform our country is not Washington, D.C…the place to begin is with ourselves.  If we want to preserve freedom as we know it, we must live righteously.”  She continues on with three seeds that we should focus on, in our individual lives, that will help us, as she says, “reap a bountiful national harvest.”  These seeds are: integrity, selflessness, and devotion to God.
            Seed #1: Integrity.  What is integrity?  My sister, Faith, asked me a couple weeks ago what integrity meant to me as a part of a personal progress experience she was working on for Young Women’s.  My response was: integrity is more than just honesty.  It’s being true to your morals and convictions, no matter the circumstances, consequences, and no matter who is (or isn’t watching).  It’s being someone others can depend on and trust to always do the right thing. The Savior is the perfect example of integrity; He did everything He promised the Father He would do.  The scriptures, and history, are full of numerous examples of integrity: Joseph in Egypt, Esther, Job, Daniel, Paul, Joseph Smith, George Washington, John Adams, and Abraham Lincoln to name a few.  In the Doctrine and Covenants the Lord gives the best compliment I can think of to Hyrum Smith when He said, “Verily I say unto you, blessed is my servant Hyrum Smith for I, the Lord, love him because of the integrity of his heart, and because he loveth that which is right before me.” (124:15). 
President James E. Faust, in 1982 said, “Integrity is the value we set on ourselves.  It is a fulfillment of the duty we owe ourselves.  An honorable man or woman will personally commit to live up to certain self-imposed expectations.  They need no outside check or control.  They are honorable in their inner core…Integrity is the light that shines from a disciplined conscience.  It is the strength of duty within us.”  In her book, Sheri Dew writes, “Our Founding Fathers clearly understood the crucial importance of integrity.  When they signed the Declaration of Independence, they pledged not only their lives and fortunes but their sacred honor.  They didn’t just moralize about integrity.  They modeled it.”   Are we planting this seed of integrity in our lives?  Are we following the examples set by those who came before us and leaving an example for those who come after us to follow?  Just remember: “If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.”
            Seed #2: Selflessness.  “Selfless service has been core to our nation from the beginning” and it is an important aspect to the gospel as well, as we all know.  Sheri Dew continues, “Our history is filled with sterling examples of selfless service.  John Adams hinted at the sacrifice he and other Founding Fathers made in a letter to his posterity: ‘You will never know how much it cost [our] generation to preserve your freedom.  I hope you will make good use it!  If you do not, I shall repent in Heaven that I ever took half the pains to preserve it!’”  This quote made me think of the third verse of “America the Beautiful” that says, “Oh beautiful for heroes proved in liberating strife, who more than self their country loved, and mercy more than life.”  Do we think about, and put the welfare of others before our own? 
            Opportunities for service to our country and in our communities are countless and varied. “President Bush said in his 2003 State of the Union address, ‘Sometimes it takes just one person in someone’s life.  I urge you to be that person.’  His words mirror Albert Schweitzer’s declaration: ‘One thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve.”  Sounds familiar doesn’t it?  Makes me think of Matthew 10:39, “He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.”  It is through service to others that we find happiness.
There is a poem that I found several years ago, and which I love, about service.  It’s called, “It’s Up To You!”
One song can spark a moment,
One flower can wake the dream.
One tree can start a forest,
One bird can herald spring.

One smile begins a friendships,
One handclasp lifts a soul.
One star can guide a ship at sea,
One word can frame the goal.

One vote can change a nation,
One sunbeam lights a room.
One candle wipes out darkness,
One laugh will conquer gloom.

One step must start each journey,
One word must start each prayer.
One hope will raise our spirits,
One touch can show you care.

One voice can speak with wisdom,
One heart can know what’s true.
One life can make the difference,
You see, ITI’S UP TO YOU!
            Seed #3: Devotion to God.  Quoting Sheri Dew again she says, “The Constitution—which is the most significant legislative document ever adopted by a people—exceeded the genius of the delegates.  Surely it was the work of principled men inspired by God—men who not only believed in God but believed that God was guiding them…Those of us who know we are living in a land created by God for the benefit of a moral people cannot afford to be inactive spectators if we wish to preserve the destiny of this nation.  We repay the goodness in our own lives by investing in the lives of others.  Every man and woman, boy and girl, can make a difference.  Every young adult, every family, every homemaker and CEO and professor, those who are wealthy and those who are not, black and white and brown, old and young and in between those who were born here and those who have been adopted into the American family—every one of us can make a difference by the seeds we sow and the trail we leave behind us.  Those who live with integrity, who give of themselves, and who never forget that God is the Presiding Authority in the universe are destined to do good and be good.  And that is what will continue to make America great.”
            Again it comes back to that phrase that I love: “steady, tranquil dedication.”  Ether chapter two gives us a very straightforward promise from the Lord regarding this land.  In verses 8-10 the Lord tells the brother of Jared three times that “this land is a land of promise; and whatsoever nation shall possess it shall serve God, or they shall be swept off when the fullness of his wrath shall come upon them.”  I don’t know about you, but I don’t really like the thought of being “swept off” by the Lord’s wrath.   Seems pretty cut and dry to me.  We’ve been given a land that has been blessed by the hand of the Lord, and a government that was set up by divine inspiration, but we need to ensure we are serving the Lord by following all of his commandments with our whole hearts, in order to avoid the blessings being taken away.
            At the end of her chapter, Sheri Dew says, “We are reaping benefits of the seeds of peace and freedom sown by our Founding Fathers and others who forged a stunning trail of integrity, selflessness, and devotion to God.  What trail are we leaving behind us?...America is a land of promise, a land choice above all others, founded by noble men inspired of God.  Further, America was not only founded by God but has been preserved by Him.  Thus, we owe our privileges and prosperity, unequaled anywhere in the world, to Him.  But with those privileges come great responsibilities—especially our responsibility to serve God and to live as He would have us live.  In short, this land’s future is dependent upon the righteousness of its people.  That means that we very literally hold the destiny of the United States of America in our hands.”
            After preparing this talk I realized there is so much more to being patriotic than flying the flag, watching fireworks, and BBQing with friends and family.  It is living a life that exemplifies everything the Savior taught and being “a 100% Latter-day Saint 100% of the time.”  As James Bryce said, “Patriotism consists not in waving the flag, but in striving that our country shall be righteous as well as strong.”  Patriotism is making sure we are planting seeds of integrity, selfless service, and devotion to God that will ensure that this country will continue to be the land of promise that it has always been.  It is up to us to make sure those who come after us are able to enjoy the same privileges and freedoms that we do.  I am so grateful for all the men and women throughout history who have sacrificed, defied the odds, fought for, challenged tradition, remained true to their morals and convictions, and made this country what it is today.  “Of him unto whom much is given, much is required” (D&C 82:3). 
What seeds are we sowing?

Saturday, May 26, 2012

here's how my week went down

Monday: Got to work to discover the systems were completely down and would be for the whole day.


Was then told that we could submit sick time if we had it and take the day off.


The pool guy that I called to come check out my dead pool pump showed up that afternoon and told me how much it was going to be to replace the motor (see previous post).



Tuesday: The systems were spotty all day and went down for an hour two different times.


Then the windshield repair guy that I called (during one of the system down times) came over to the house after work to replace my windshield and told me he didn't take plastic.  Only cash or check.


Luckily, turns out he lives just around the corner from me and told me he trusted me to get the money for him the next day.  I was surprised by this, but it also helped restore my faith a little in the world.  I went to the ATM the next day and withdrew the cash and he came back over to pick it up and everything is now square with Dan.  (P.S. if you ever need your windshield replaced here in Mesa let me know and I'll give you Dan's number.  He's great!)

Wednesday-Friday: The systems at work STILL not working 100%.  Every day at 10:30am down they went for an hour and then again around 2pm.


Thursday I also had to go back to the eye doctor for the one week check up on my new contact lenses.  What was scheduled to be a 10 minute visit (seriously, I saw it on the calendar when Zach the technician guy scheduled it.  It said 4:50-5:00pm) turned into an hour.  AN HOUR!


All week: I've been stressing about my talk in church tomorrow.

Needless to say, I am really looking forward to having Monday off...

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

$1145.35

5/1/2012....New fridge: $328.60

5/17/2012....Contacts and eye exam: $130.75

5/21/2012....New pool pump motor: $461.00

5/22/2012....New windshield: $225.00

Make it stop!!!

Sunday, May 20, 2012

family fun day

Yesterday I....

...had breakfast with Katy at Over Easy.  Waffle dogs and cheddar-jalapeno biscuits and gravy!!



...had a "Family Fun Day" with my family at Amazing Jakes (we decided to use the $$ from our family garage sale to spend the day having fun with each other!)



 



















...saw the movie Mirror Mirror.  Really cute and the Prince was ADORABLE (even when he was wearing bunny ears)!








Friday, May 11, 2012

spirit week

My division had a spirit week this week at work.  Each day had a theme that people could dress up for.  Monday = pajama day, Tuesday = jocks vs geeks, Wednesday = crazy hats, Thursday = Hawaiian/tropical.  Today (Friday) we were supposed to come up with a team decorating idea and decorate our cubes accordingly.  My team decided to be "the mall" and each person/cube was a different store.  I was the music/movie store.....






Sunday, May 6, 2012

advice from grandpa

Tonight we celebrated my Grandpa McLaws' 80th birthday at my aunt and uncle's house in Gilbert.  We had yummy food and had fun being together as an extended family.  Grandpa gave us all some good advice that I think everyone should live by:

1. Take a bath at least once a week
2. Read a good book once a month
3. Help your parents with one chore every day
4. Be a good neighbor
5. Say your prayers
6. Come and visit me once in awhile

Saturday, May 5, 2012

my weekend

Discovered a new favorite show on Netflix:

Saw the new Avengers movie with Katy and John:

Lost 10 pounds!! (total since I started Weight Watchers 2 weeks ago):

Bought and read this book:

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

silver lining

I said a prayer last night for the first time in longer than I care to admit to.  I haven't been the best recently at doing all the little things that I know I should, but I have made a renewed commitment to myself and my Heavenly Father to be better at reading my scriptures, praying every day, and making better choices.  I spent some time on my knees, and shed some tears.  This morning as I was driving to work, wondering what in the heck I was going to do about getting a new refrigerator, and bemoaning the fact that it was going to cost so much to replace, a thought came to me that this was actually an answer to my prayer.  My fridge has been slowly dying over the last couple weeks which means the answer started coming before I even got down on my knees last night.  It may sound silly to say that a dying fridge is an answer to a prayer, but it is.  The details aren't important.  What is important is the fact that Heavenly Father does answer prayers.  They may not always be in the way we might expect, or hope, but if you're eyes, mind, and heart are open, you can see the silver lining in whatever storm clouds come your way.